The most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people.
Theodore Roosevelt
In the current scenario, there is a growing importance attached to developing relations. People cannot survive in their jobs if they do not maintain good relations with their co-workers. They should understand the importance of maintaining and developing relations with others, and especially with their co-workers at the workplace. We can avoid several problems and promote goodwill among others if we gel well with others.
Currently, attrition is very high at many workplaces and one of the reasons for this is the fact that employees don’t gel well with others, with their subordinates and/or superiors. Although a salary increment and career growth are the factors for attrition, the inability to gel well with others is another major factor that leads to attrition at the workplace. Sometimes, some seniors in the organization want to dominate over their co-workers. If an employee questions their seniority, he or she may lose the job. Here is the story of a sincere editor in a research organization who lost his job as he was not able to gel with seniors in that organization.
Robert was a generous, humble and noble man. He was new to the organization. He was asked to do a project with a senior, Sarah, who had a dominating nature. Robert completed his part of the project and gave it to Sarah. Sarah ordered him to complete the rest of the work as well. As she was the senior, he obeyed her instructions. Robert completed the entire project and gave it to Sarah. Sarah told Robert there were many mistakes and the project was not supposed to be done in that way. Robert corrected the project as per Sarah’s instructions and presented the project. As Sarah was a senior, she dictated what Robert must do and she asked him to redo the project a number of times. One day, Robert got annoyed and shouted at Sarah for repeatedly harassing him. Sarah got angry with Robert and reported him to the higher authorities, by exaggerating the issue in her favour. Finally, Robert was fired from his job. From this story, it is obvious that it is essential to gel well with others in order to survive at the workplace.
We cannot choose people at the workplace. People have different natures and they come with different egos, emotions and feelings. Hence, we need to change ourselves as per the situation. Here are some nuggets to help you promote good relations with others at the workplace:
Robert Brault said, ‘When something is missing in your life, it usually turns out to be someone’. People often waste a lot of time by quarrelling with others. They lose their precious jobs by not gelling with others. We don’t even enjoy a sense of peace when we fight or argue with people. Having amicable people around you and adjusting with them makes your life much better and happier. Developing bonds with others may help you get a good job and it will take you to higher positions in life. If we gel well, we can live well. This is one of the success sutras you should adopt to lead your life successfully.