Leadership does not rest within a person. It is a relationship among people.
Robert B. Woyach
Successful leaders know how to build bridges with others to achieve their organizational objectives. They know the importance of building relations for the successful execution of activities and effective interpersonal relations. They spot the barriers and break them, and build relations that bring magical results to their organizations. In this chapter, we will discuss the significance of building bridges.
Bridges are the links while barriers are the obstacles. Life is in your hands and you can choose the way you want to lead. Either you can build bridges or create barriers. As man is a social animal who craves the company of others and wants to move with others, he definitely wants to build bridges.
A bridge allows you to cross to the other side smoothly. You can build bridges with others through love, warmth, friendliness, cooperation, understanding, forgiveness and a willingness to accept people as they are, rather than how we want them to be. A grateful attitude for the ability to build bridges helps to connect with others easily.
Because the personal relationship defines the existing quality of interpersonal interaction between the leader and wouldbe followers, followers will not join the leader without the requisite relationship. Leadership is the relationship.1
(Blank 1995: 12)
Leadership is all about relationships, breaking barriers and building bridges. Leaders must walk their talk to build relationships. They must create trust and goodwill among others. Unfortunately, most leaders are currently busy with their deadlines and pressures and do not find time to build relations. They do not give others the opportunity to grow relations. As a result, they find very many casualties; and then they get busy firefighting those casualties rather than building relations. However, if the leaders find time to build relations and exercise patience for a while, they can avoid organizational casualties, thus ensuring organizational excellence. Building relations is like a ‘ripple effect’, and it takes time for the waves to reach the shore. Leaders must have time to think through and demonstrate their leadership in a similar manner.
People never care how much you know until they know how much you care.
John C. Maxwell
Building relations is not that easy as people have different emotions, feelings, needs and expectations. It is essential to know the other person in order to build relations. There must be a degree of flexibility to adjust and accommodate others. Here are some tips to build bridges:
It takes years of effort to build bridges and seconds to break them. In fact, there is a bigger challenge in sustaining relations than in building them. Jean Leslie, a researcher at the Center for Creative Leadership (CCL), says, ‘Building relationships is one of the strongest skills sets related to leadership effectiveness.’ Relationships are essential for leadership effectiveness and success. Hence, leaders must build bridges at the workplace to enable the growth of their people and organizations. In addition, it enhances their leadership effectiveness and success.