Chapter 3

Frontiers

“Anyone can achieve their fullest potential[;] who we are might be predetermined, but the path we follow is always of our own choosing. We should never allow our fears or the expectations of others to set the frontiers of our destiny.”

—Martin Heidegger

We often think of frontiers as wild places at the edge of the known world, full of risk and danger, and so while they might make a great movie setting, we tend to avoid frontiers in our own lives. We forget that they are also the places where we learn, discover, and grow—and we find them everywhere, not just in faraway lands. A frontier is really any boundary between where we feel comfortable and where we don’t. And there are an infinite number of frontiers available to each of us, because every aspect of our lives includes a comfort zone that we have taken as a given and that constricts the possibilities available to us.

Born into humble origins, Denis O’Brien had already achieved a great deal by his family’s standards when he was hired by the local bank after attending university. Always restless, however, O’Brien cold-called Tony Ryan, founder of Guinness Peat Aviation and Ryanair, landing a job as his personal assistant. Later, as mobile phones started to mature, he left Ryan to create his own mobile company, ESat Telecom, which he later sold to British Telecom. Still looking for the next frontier, O’Brien founded Digicel to lead the development of mobile networks in over thirty Caribbean and Pacific islands.

When we asked O’Brien about navigating the uncertainty of so many frontiers, he answered by recounting his experience creating a mobile network in Haiti, one of the poorest nations in the world, crippled by underinvestment and corruption. “No one wanted to invest, absolutely nobody,” O’Brien told us. But he flew to Haiti anyway. “It took me two hours driving around Port-au-Prince to see that we could do it. Everywhere, people were transacting—selling food, car parts, and other stuff. I could see people had a few dollars to invest in something that could transform their lives.”1

Despite his optimism, O’Brien could only convince one other investor, who in the end dropped out, leaving Digicel to fund the full $160 million up-front costs to establish the network. Digicel Haiti has since weathered earthquakes, fuel riots, hyperinflation, and other uncertainties to become the first mobile operator in a place where everyone thought it was impossible. “So in answer to your question,” O’Brien told us, leaning in close with a smile and a wink, “all anyone could see were the risks, but I saw possibility.” Pushing into the frontier has made O’Brien one of the wealthiest entrepreneurs in the world, allowing him to build over two hundred schools in Haiti and to rebuild its famous Iron Market after it was flattened by the 2010 earthquake.

However, for most of us the frontier will be found not in other countries but much closer to home. Clare and David Hieatt are a creative couple who cofounded the clothing brand Howies while working jobs at advertising agencies. But when Howies started to take off, they left their high-paying jobs in London to focus full-time on their eco brand, ultimately selling to Timberland in the hope that they would have greater impact with more support. Imagine their devastation when Timberland chose to go a different direction, moving the company to the United States. The Hieatts left the company, and while the financial exit made them comfortable, they missed the entrepreneurial frontier.

One weekend, hanging out with friends, they wondered aloud, “How can we keep learning, like we did when we had Howies?” Remembering that one of the hardest things about being an entrepreneur is feeling alone, they started to think about developing an “encouragement network” to help others trying to do new things. In some ways, it didn’t make sense for the Hieatts to lead an encouragement network. They had moved to Cardigan, Wales, a tiny town of four thousand people on the remote western edge of the UK. What could they do from such a small place? But they had bought a farm, with old chicken sheds and large fields. What if they could attract top-notch speakers, provide great coffee, let attendees camp in the fields, and broadcast the resulting encouragement to the world?

The idea grew to become the Do Lectures, the SXSW of the continental innovation world. Featuring lectures from people like Sir Tim Berners-Lee, Marion Deuchars, Tim Ferriss, and Maggie Doyne, it created a global impact—there are now Do Lectures in the United States, Australia, and Costa Rica. The experience not only expanded their frontier as a couple but led to the creation of a new business, Hiut Denim. Looking back on the journey, David Hieatt now champions frontiers: Although they can be scary or intimidating, “you can only do your best work when you are at the frontier,” he argues. “You have to be at the frontier if you want to do something new.”

Frontiers can also be personal internal boundaries with equally transformative rewards. Benjamin Gilmour is an author, filmmaker, and paramedic who has worked, written, and filmed all over the world. His film Jirga is about an Australian soldier fighting the Taliban who, during a village raid, kills the innocent father of a family of three. Racked by guilt, he returns to the village three years later to make amends and is put on trial by the village elders. The film’s climax is as touching as it is surprising: the oldest son holds a knife to the throat of his father’s murderer and forgives rather than seeks revenge. The village elders, Afghani tribespeople who many Westerners have been taught to fear, then express the film’s valuable lesson: “forgiveness is mightier and more honourable than taking revenge.”

When we asked Gilmour why he wanted to flip the script on so many of our Western stereotypes, he said, “I wanted to push the boundaries of empathy, of what people can feel for someone who is so different from them, even someone they have stereotyped as bad.”2

Not all frontiers have to be emotionally charged, entrepreneurial, or daringly adventurous. Signing up for a new workout session, trying a new haircut, and even going to a restaurant that you assumed you wouldn’t like are all frontier-expanding pursuits. When we spent time with author Brad Modlin during his visit to Paris, we had a hard time meeting up with him on several occasions. What we didn’t know is that this nationally recognized author and poet was either lost or just running a couple minutes late. Why? He didn’t have a map … because he doesn’t carry a smartphone … on purpose. He welcomes getting lost because he knows it means he will discover new places and see new things. It’s something he learned walking the Camino de Santiago, the ancient pilgrim trail that cuts through the heart of France and Spain. Amid the sudden rainstorms, blisters, and faulty gear, he found his most interesting experiences happened when he got lost or had setbacks. “I learned to love it,” Modlin told us, “and now I let myself get lost just to see what I find. It’s so fascinating!”3

Reflection and Practice

There are frontiers all around us, in both the small things that can be tweaked (morning rituals, exercises, work practices) and the bigger, long-anticipated events (going to college, first real job, marriage, childbirth, retirement). A frontier is simply the boundary between the known and the unknown. None of us can explore all the frontiers but waking up to their existence can be a powerful tool for transformation, and the most important ones are those that hold the most possibility for your personal growth or satisfaction. If frontiers in your life are ignored or even underexplored, the chances of capturing a new opportunity in that aspect of your life are low.

  1. Start by listing the frontiers in your life. Some of the most obvious are areas like career and relationship. If you think there is no longer a frontier there, take a second look: Empty nesters go back to medical school. A grandma we know is still doing the splits at age ninety in a yearly dance production. Those of us who doggedly seek the “what” of our career, like being CEO or the boss, may be seeing the frontier too narrowly. Social, emotional, skill, activity, and geographic frontiers are also tethered to our career frontier and impact our quality of life.
  2. When asking “How can I expand the frontier in my career?” consider the options broadly: Could you work with new people? Would you like to do this same job but in a different company, or with this company but in a different location? Would you enjoy creating your own project or company? Can you start a side project in your free time? How can you expand the frontiers of your responsibilities at work?
  3. Beyond career, consider physical, intellectual, emotional, social, spiritual, and other frontiers, which often overlap and inform each other. Whichever neglected frontier you approach agitates others into momentum. For example, when you start to expand the frontier of learning a new skill, you will undoubtedly discover a new world of people and resources that love and live for that skill you are just discovering.
  4. Go deeper with your questions. Choose one or two frontiers that are most motivating to you, and start imagining options: How could you take the first step? Would it start in conversation with a leader or mentor? Do you need to research more about how to begin? Which practices can you start now, and which will take more preparation? From the list of action items that you start now, choose one and make a commitment to yourself to begin today (e.g., send the email, buy the book, sign up for the class). Often, just taking ten minutes to sniff around the edges of a frontier can reveal the path beyond your comfort zone.
  5. If you are feeling uninspired about which frontier might hold the most meaningful change for you, consider starting with the emotional frontier. Who among us would not enjoy the improved relationship that would come from better understanding a partner, child, or friend? Or even closer to home, what if you embarked on a journey of deeper self-knowledge? Any self-reflective inner work (meditation, journaling, therapy) will reveal clues to what might be holding you back from all other frontiers.
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