Contents

Preface

Acknowledgments

Part I: Fundamentals

Chapter 1: The World Has Changed

The Impact of Large Power Differentials

Becoming a Partner

The Book’s Organization

Chapter 2: How Power Differentials Blind Smart People

Introduction

Common Negative Consequences of Having Relatively Great Power

The Necessity of Power—But “Mind the Gap!”

Sources of Power—Organizational and Personal

Bad Patterns, Not Bad People

Chapter 3: How Power Differentials Give Smart People Laryngitis

Actual versus Virtual Power

The Danger of a Dysfunctional Dance

The Costs to Both Parties

Conditions for Altering Power Relationships and Narrowing the Gap

Chapter 4: Overview of the Steps Required to Access and Influence Powerful People

1. Determine Who Has to Be Influenced

2. Assume That Each is a Potential Partner

3. Determine Their Power and the Power Gap

4. Diagnose the World of the Powerful, Their Currencies (What They Value), and Which Ones You Can Offer

5. Figure Out How to Gain Access

6. Clarify What You Need and Your Priorities

7. Diagnose Your Relationship and the Preferences for How to Approach

8. Negotiate Win-Win Exchanges

Chapter 5: The Influence Model at Work

Next Meeting

Part II: Building a Powerful Partnership with Your Boss

Chapter 6: Partnership

The Gaps That Make Influence Necessary

The Meaning of Partnership

The Characteristics and Expectations of True Partnership

Why Partnership is Needed

What Does Partnership Require from You?

Whose Responsibility is It?

What Does an Elusive Boss Look Like?

The Partnership Approach Can Work with Senior Powerful People

Chapter 7: Building a Partnership Relationship with Your Boss

1. Examine your own beliefs for barriers

2. Adopt a Partnerlike Mind-Set

3. Accept That Your Boss Isn’t and Can’t Be Perfect

4. Assess the Gap in Power between You and Your Boss

5. Stop Giving Away Your Potential

6. Understand Your Boss’s World or Specific Situation

7. Raise Your Concern in a Direct But Nonblaming Way

8. Acknowledge Your Part in Any Difficulties

9. Accept Your Boss’s Concerns as Legitimate

10. Don’t Undermine Yourself

Chapter 8: The Art—and Responsibility—of Helping Your Boss Succeed

Taking on Some of the Boss’s Tasks

Relieving the Boss of Heroic Tendencies

Proactively Giving Support

Knowing the Impact of Your Boss’s Behavior

Helping Your Boss Be a Better Boss

For Whose Sake?

Chapter 9: Recovering from Failed Talks with Your Boss

Ways You Might Have Trapped Yourself

Can We Discuss the Way We Can Talk?

Disagreeing with Your Boss . . . and Surviving or Thriving

But What If Directness Does Not Work? Andy’s Vanishing Boss

But What If I Have a Truly Toxic Boss?

Your Fallback Position

Part III: Influencing Powerful People

Chapter 10: Framing Your Change Strategy

Failing to Identify Key Stakeholders—in or outside of the Company—Can Be Extremely Costly

Difficult Founder

Progress after Baker

Known Stakeholders Ignored—At Great Cost

Start with a Power Map

Stakeholder Power

Partnership Mind-Set

Sequencing of Action

Chapter 11: What Do the Powerful Care About?

Factors in the Organizational World That Shape the Currencies of Powerful People

Are You Seeking to Influence People inside or outside the Organization? About One Event, or Multiple Issues?

Use a Powerful Proposal Style Whether Dealing Internally or Externally

Chapter 12: Action Steps for Gaining Access to Powerful People

The Bold, Direct Approach

Networking Advice

Summary of Overall Access Approach

Chapter 13: Clinching the Deal

Dual Focus: Determining What You Want and Constantly Improving the Relationship

Addressing the Power Gap

Other Strategies for Increasing Your Power with Senior Management in Your Own Organization

Connecting to Frequently Important Personal Currencies

Where You Have Little Relationship and Trust is Low

Chapter 14: The Contours of Change

Background: The Need

Finding Allies

Overcoming Institutional Objections

A Complex Integrated Plan—and Real Time Corrections

Outside Influences

Remembering Less Prominent but Still Important Stakeholders

Conclusions

Chapter 15: Influence across Multiple Organizations

Key Players

Gaining Credibility

An Early Test

Nearing Agreement, Internal Dissent from Unplanned-For Stakeholders

Saving Face for Elected Officials

Legal Hitches

Lessons for Influencing on a Grand Scale

Additional Resources

Index

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