APPENDIX A

Preparing for Difficult Conversations

What Happened

STORIES

IMPACT/INTENT

CONTRIBUTION

What is my story (e.g., information, experience, rules)?

My intentions

What did I contribute to the problem?

 

Impact on me

 

What is their story?

Their intentions

What did they contribute?

 

Impact on them

 

Feelings


What feelings underline my attributions and judgments?


Identity Issues


How does what happened threaten my identity? What is at stake for me about me?


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