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Abdul-Jabbar, Kareem
accomplishment
accountability
actors
Adler, Stella
Adopt a Challenging Belief exercise
Adopt a New Belief exercise
adopting a challenging belief
Adopt a Challenging Belief exercise for
lessons learned about
adopting new beliefs
Adopt a New Belief exercise for
lessons learned about
advice, for self-improvement, see feedforward
Ali, Muhammad (Cassius Clay)
Alito, Samuel
Anthony, Susan B.
Are You Ready To Succeed? (Srikumar Rao)
Aristotle
ASEEP (active, social, emotional, expressive, performance-based)
athletes
attention
to details
lessons learned about
Three Raisins exercise for
authentic voice
Authentic Voice exercise for
lessons learned about
Authentic Voice exercise
authority, not relying on
Avoid Imposing Values exercise
awareness
of beliefs
of emotional system
self-
of unwanted emotions
Bauby, Jean-Dominique
behaviors
beliefs as basis for
beliefs vs.
in emotional system
getting advice on changing, seefeedforward
beliefs
behaviors vs.
challenging, see adopting a challenging belief
changing, see adopting new beliefs
definition of
effects of
in emotional system
identifying
and leadership
lessons learned about
of others
and perception
unwanted, see unwanted beliefs
Write Others’ Beliefs exercise for
Write Your Beliefs exercise for
Bennis, Warren
Born Standing Up (Steve Martin)
Botha, P. W.
Bryant, Kobe
Buffett, Warren
Bush, George H. W.
Bush, George W.
but, see No, But, However exercise
Campbell’s Soup
Castro, Fidel
challenging situations
changing your beliefs in, see adopting a challenging belief
The Method, More Challenging exercise for
Chan, Jackie
changing beliefs, see adopting a challenging belief; adopting new beliefs
Civil Disobedience (Henry David Thoreau)
Clay, Cassius (Muhammad Ali)
Clinton, Bill
Clurman, Herald
Combs, Sean
Coming to Our Senses (Jon Kabat-Zinn)
confidence
Confirmation/Clarification Cycle
conflict management
connections, meaningful, see meaningful connections
contradictory beliefs
convincing, leading through
“The Crucibles of Leadership” (Warren Bennis and Robert Thomas)
Cuban Missile Crisis
cursing, beliefs about
Dalai Lama
de Klerk, F. W.
Dennehy, Brian
details, attention to
The Diving Bell and the Butterfly (Jean-Dominique Bauby)
Drucker, Peter
on Hesselbein
on three stonecutters
effectiveness
Eisenhower, Dwight
on connecting
on leadership
Elizabeth, Queen
emotional system model
lessons learned about
The Model exercise for
sharing
emotion(s)
in adopting new beliefs
in emotional system
essay on
mainstream views of
and meaning, value, importance, and purpose
models for leadership and, see models for leadership and emotions
as motivation
Universal
unwanted
empathy
leading with, see leading with empathy
environments, in emotional system
experiences
experiential project-based learning
external incentives
facts, beliefs and
Faust, Drew
feedback
feedforward
applications of
Feedforward exercise for
lessons learned about
Feedforward exercise
Feiner, Michael
The Feiner Points of Leadership (Michael Feiner)
focus
lessons learned about
Three Raisins exercise for
Fog of War (documentary)
Fonda, Jane
Franken, Al
Frankl, Viktor
Freud, Sigmund
Gandhi, Mohandas
Gautama, Siddhartha
Gimp (Mark Zupan)
goals
Goldsmith, Marshall
and Feedforward exercise
and No, But, However exercise
Graham, Martha
Harvard Business Review
HBR’s 10 Must-Reads on Leadership
Hesselbein, Frances
however, see No, But, However exercise
“I Have a Dream” speech (Martin Luther King, Jr.)
importance, see meaning, value, importance, and purpose (MVIP)
imposing values
Avoid Imposing Values exercise for
lessons learned about
improving life, see also personal mastery
incentives, external
inner monologue
lessons learned about
voicing your
Write Your Inner Monologue exercise for
inspirational leadership
Inspire exercise
inspiring others
Inspire exercise for
lessons learned about
intelligence, beliefs and
Jackson, Phil
Jobs, Steve
job satisfaction
John Paul II, Pope
Jordan, Michael
judgment
in communication, see also feedforward
see also imposing values
Kennedy, John F.
King, Martin Luther, Jr.
King’s Academy, Jordan
leader(s)
behaving like
undesignated
leadership
beliefs and
essay on
inspirational
lessons learned about
of managers
models for, see models for leadership and emotions
without relying on authority
Your Leadership Project exercise for
leadership programs
leading others
leading with empathy
Lead with Empathy exercise for
lessons learned about
leading yourself
Lead with Empathy exercise
Lincoln, Abraham
Lipton, James
logic
Make People Feel Understood exercise
making others feel understood
lessons learned about
Make People Feel Understood exercise
managing others
and complaints about managers
three stonecutters parable about
see also supporting and managing others
Mandela, Nelson
manipulation
Man’s Search for Meaning (Viktor Frankl)
Martin, Steve
Maslow, Abraham
mastery, see personal mastery
Matisse, Henri
McNamara, Robert
meaning, value, importance, and purpose (MVIP)
and avoiding imposing values
from connecting passion to task
connection between emotions and
creating
as inherent in perception of things
for job satisfaction
lack of
from leading based on emotions
from leading with empathy
from progression of exercises
in Support and Manage exercise
meaning-carrying words
Meaningful Connection exercise
meaningful connections
creating
lessons learned about
Meaningful Connection exercise for
meditation
mental models. see also beliefs mentors
Method
The Method, More Challenging exercise
The Method exercise
Method Learning
mindfulness
misunderstood, feeling
Mitterrand, Francois
The Model exercise
models for leadership and emotions
lessons learned about
Write Your Models for Leadership and Emotions exercise for
motivation
beliefs involved in
emotions as
essay on
internal, external incentives vs.
understanding, see also making others feel understood
Mulally, Alan
MVIP, see meaning, value, importance, and purpose
Napoleon
needs, common
negativity
No, But, However exercise
nonverbal communication
O’Connor, Sandra Day
O’Neal, Shaquille
passions, see also inspiring others; making others feel understood; meaningful connections
Patton, George
perception
beliefs and
lessons learned about
of meaning, value, importance, and purpose
Three Raisins exercise for
performance, teaching
performers
Personal Essay exercise
Personal Leadership Project
personal mastery
lessons learned about
The Method, More Challenging exercise for
The Method exercise for
Your Leadership Project exercise for
Phelps, Michael
Picasso, Pablo
Pippen, Scottie
Plato
The Practice of Management (Peter Drucker)
purpose, see meaning, value, importance, and purpose (MVIP)
Rao, Srikumar
Reagan, Ronald
reason, leading through
reflection
relationships at work
responding to others
lessons learned about
No, But, However exercise for
Rocky II (movie)
Rodman, Dennis
science
scripts
self-awareness
and aspiration/conviction
developing
essay on
self-development
sensory experiences
sensory properties of experiences
social rules
society, beliefs of
Stanislavsky, Constantin
Strasburg, Lee
strategies, beliefs vs.
suffering
Support and Manage exercise
supporting and managing others
lessons learned about
Support and Manage exercise for
suppressing beliefs
teaching performance
Thatcher, Margaret
Thomas, Robert
Thoreau, Henry David
Three Raisins exercise
Toyota
understanding others, see also making others feel understood
understanding yourself
undesignated leaders
Universal Emotion
unwanted beliefs
lessons learned about
Write Your Unwanted Beliefs exercise for
values, see imposing values; meaning, value, importance, and purpose (MVIP)
Ventura, Jesse
Vietnam War
Washington, George
Winfrey, Oprah
Wooden, John
working hard
Write Others’ Beliefs exercise
Write Your Beliefs exercise
Write Your Inner Monologue exercise
Write Your Models for Leadership and Emotions exercise
Write Your Unwanted Beliefs exercise
Your Leadership Project exercise
Zupan, Mark