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1. Resisting the Entitlement Trend

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3. Reality Check: How Do We Raise Our Sons and Daughters?

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5. Screenagers

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8. The Parenting Road Map to Communication and Connection

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9. Wired to Take Risks

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10. Preparing for the Next Chapter

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