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questions about what has triggered them being interested in your
goods or services at this moment in their life;
questions that will probably trigger a bit more conversation.
So, for example, you may be:
a solicitor who nds out a prospect wants a will because they are
going travelling for three months;
an optician who nds out a prospect wants contact lenses because
they have just got a part in a play with an amateur drama group;
a seller of lawn mowers who nds out that the prospect has just
moved house to somewhere with a bigger garden;
a seller of ofce furniture who discovers his prospect has just moved
into larger ofce premises to expand.
In each of these cases, when the prospect has parted with this sort of infor-
mation, you would be able to comment appropriately, chat about their
circumstances and ask more rapport building questions . . . ‘Where are you
travelling to?’ . . . ‘Wow, what play are you in?’ . . . ‘How big is the garden?’ . . .
‘Great to hear you are expanding, what business are you in?’
This doesn’t have to take long, but once you start getting these sorts of
answers you are on your way to making that ‘personal connection’. The
closer you get to that, the more the prospect will want to go with you
or your business and the harder it will be for them to go with someone
else, even if you are a little more expensive. On an unconscious level, the
connection you have begins to be a differentiating factor and a powerful
‘weight block’ in your favour, which may help minimise the importance
of price.
I know what you are thinking. What happens if the prospect just wants
direct answers and no chat? Fine, give them what they want and move
forward to the next step in the ve-step process. All you can do is try.
Remember, you are not going to succeed every single time. All you are
seeking to do is to do better than you (and probably most of your competi-
tors) are currently doing in terms of conversion rates.
Step three: bounce back
Bouncing back is really easy to understand and to do. It is simply the
process and technique of quite literally repeating back to the prospect,
using their words as closely as possible, your understanding of what they