Powerful questions

I In this chapter, we identify what makes some questions more powerful than others; we show how to use questions to plant suggestions and lead your prospects to think precisely what you want them to think. Also, we consider if there is ever a good time or reason to ask closed questions and, if there is, when to do so.

All questions are not equal

The American Educational Psychologist Benjamin Bloom (1913–99) classified questions into six progressively more sophisticated levels known as Bloom’s Hierarchy of Questions. Here is a summary of his scheme:

Level Question type What this question type requires
One Knowledge-based The recognition, gathering and recall of information
Two Comprehension Thinking at a lower level and the communication of knowledge without verbatim repetition
Three Application Applying learnt information to other situations to solve and explain problems
Four Analysis Systematically examining facts and information to resolve challenges
Five Synthesis The use of original creative thinking to identify solutions
Six Evaluation The assessment of good or not so good

Level one, knowledge-based questions, is the first and simplest of questioning techniques used for gathering information. After the poet and writer Rudyard Kipling (1865–1936) wrote a short poem about them, they also became known as Kipling Questions. Here is his poem:

I keep six honest serving men (They taught me all I knew); Their names are What and Why and When and How and Where and Who.

Questions beginning with these words are naturally open, have varying degrees of effectiveness and elicit different forms of information.

Open questions

Starting questions with the following words will ensure they are open, pre-suppositional and powerful.

Questions starting with ‘How’ tend to be assumptive and those beginning with ‘What’ elicit more thoughtful replies. ‘What if’ lead questions are an alternative way of directing your prospect to ‘imagine’ something and reflect before answering, and are very powerful indeed.

Closed questions

Closed questions elicit yes/no responses and can begin with the words below; this is by no means an exhaustive list.

Do Could Would Can Are Will
When to use closed questions

It is always preferable to start a meeting by asking open questions, gradually progressing towards those requiring a narrower response, and finally asking closed questions. Open questions appear less threatening and generate lots of information; they help build rapport and direct the conversation towards your goal.

As your prospect becomes comfortable responding to open exploratory questions, start asking more directed pre-suppositional ones that include the vocabulary of both internal representation and awareness.

Vocabulary of internal representation

The following words purposely compel listeners and readers to begin a mental journey of imagination. Whatever they have imagined is unique to them.

  • Consider/considered
  • Contemplate for a moment
  • Think about/thought about
  • What if
  • What is it like when Imagine/Imagined
  • Ponder
  • Reflect on

Vocabulary of awareness

When referring to awareness patterns, we mean a small set of words in the English language that imply knowledge and, compellingly, everything said after them is pre-supposed to be true. When you use these words to describe the benefits of any product or service, the only open question is your prospect’s ‘awareness’ of the advantages of your offering.

Notice See/seen Realise
Aware Experience Discover

Using this lexis helps your prospect to take mental ownership of your product or service at an early stage in your meeting. Towards the end of your presentation, asking closed questions will clarify requirements and gain commitment.

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Powerful questions

The questions below are those a sales professional might ask a potential client. They are all powerful, requiring thoughtful answers. By reading them often, you can, perhaps, absorb the vocabulary, imagine your sales environment and tailor this questioning format to your business and individual style.

  1. What are you seeking to achieve here?
    Response    We need to streamline this department to cut costs and increase productivity. Also, we have a problem with uniformity of service delivery.
    Analysis    This is a broad, powerful ‘What lead’ opening question, structured to yield as much information as possible. It is also pre-suppositional because it presumes the prospective client is seeking to achieve something.
  2. What did you first notice to make you realise you need XYZ?
    Response    Our IT services were not uniform across the company and the department was haemorrhaging money because we had overused costly contractors.
    Analysis    This powerful ‘What lead’ question seeks further information and uses the vocabulary of awareness, the words notice and realise. This question is pre-suppositional, as it is assumed something was seen and the prospect understands something is needed. It also contains an embedded suggestion, ‘you need XYZ’. (where XYZ is your product, service or company).
  3. Can you imagine continuing like this much longer?
    Response    No, not really, because . . .
    Analysis    This closed question uses the vocabulary of internal representation. The word ‘Imagine’ instructs the prospect to imagine the impact of carrying on as they are and the negative response confirms they would prefer not to.
  4. How do you see our products satisfying your requirements?
    Response    They will enable us to achieve 90 per cent automation of our department by Q4 and savings of 75 per cent.
    Analysis    This is an assumptive question, as it begins with the word ‘how’ and it uses the vocabulary of awareness with the word ‘see’. The prospect is invited to ‘see’ how the products offered will satisfy their needs. A prospect might say, ‘I was rather hoping you would tell me’, which would be a fantastic answer. The sales professional may continue with, ‘Of course, tell me, what do you need to achieve here?’ And so the dialogue progresses.
  5. Do you need to cut costs now?
    Response    Yes, because . . .
    Analysis    A closed question, beginning with the word ‘do’ elicits a ‘yes’ response and acclimatises the client in this example to saying yes. It also conceals the embedded suggestion, ‘cut costs now’.
  6. Do you need to start the process within the next five months?
    Response    Yes, because . . .
    Analysis    This closed question elicits a ‘yes’ response and conceals the embedded suggestion, ‘start the process’.
  7. Which of our solutions most interests you? Is it A + description or B + description?
    Response    Both seem good, though option B will mostly satisfy our requirements.
    Analysis    This is a powerful classic, closing pre-suppositional question, assuming that one of the solutions offered will interest the prospect. However, use with care and only if the context is right. Prospects are very savvy and this is a very obvious close.
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Follow open questions with closed questions. Use closed questions to lead your prospect to reaffirm crucial points, positive and negative, that they have already stated.

How to deepen rapport while asking closed questions

Occasionally, when posing closed questions, you will elicit either a ‘yes because’ or a ‘no because’ answer. The words people use after they say ‘because’ are critical because they reveal something about your subject even they will not know. Once you know what to look for, you will be able to identify whether your prospect is motivated either towards an objective or away from a problem to achieve a goal.

This is vital information to anyone needing to persuade. However motivated, each group expresses themselves using distinctly different vocabulary when talking about areas of significant interest. For Brilliant Persuaders, this is yet another method to enable you to speak the language of your prospects and, in so doing, deepen rapport, reduce resistance and raise responsiveness.

Towards-oriented vocabulary: towards-oriented people frequently express themselves using the following vocabulary:

Accomplish Achieve Advantages Benefits
Collect Enable Get Have
Obtain Reap Secure Win

Away-oriented vocabulary: away-oriented people favour words from this group:

Abolish Avoid Eliminate
Eradicate Exclude Fix
Get rid of Have to deal with It’s not perfect
Prevent Remove Solve
Stop Won’t have to

Below are two examples of how the same question can be answered differently, depending on motivational direction:

  1. Do you need to cut costs now?
    Response    Yes, because when we reduce costs, our profit margins will increase, ultimately enabling the company to grow and secure greater market share.
    Analysis    The use of the words ‘enabling’ and ‘secure’ indicate that this response comes from a towards-oriented individual.
  2. Do you need to cut costs now?
    Response    Oh, yes, because they are escalating, we have to remove the excess and stop them spiralling out of control before it’s too late. Otherwise, we’ll have to deal with closure and redundancies. We cannot keep going like this.
    Analysis    The same question can produce an entirely different answer. The words ‘remove’, ‘stop’ and ‘deal with’ tell us this response comes from an away-oriented individual.

In a work environment, 40 per cent of people are away-oriented and 40 per cent are towards-oriented; 20 per cent are both. Once you have identified the vocabulary set used by your prospect, continue your conversation using their lexis. This artful and subtle technique deepens rapport and seamlessly places you on the same wavelength as your prospect.

Embedding suggestions into questions

When we ask questions, we actively control the degree of flexibility we offer our prospects to formulate their responses; effectively, we are scoping their reply.

Powerful questions accomplish much more than purely eliciting information; they become powerfully persuasive when embedded commands, suggestions and the response we seek are covertly concealed within them, thus guiding the conversation forward towards the subjects we wish our customer to think about and discuss. To accomplish this, it is essential at the outset to identify the suggestions you want to embed and then carefully construct your question around them.

To illustrate this, we have inserted some simple, mostly generic commands into the following questions:

Suggestion Question
Live in this What might you change if you could live in this
house house, now?

Analysis An estate agent could use this question. The scope of the response is pre-determined. In this particular pre-suppositional question, it is presumed that the potential purchaser would change something if they were to live in the house. When the client responds with what they might change, they have imagined themselves living there. The phrase ‘live in this house’ is an embedded command, given as a message to the subconscious to do just that!

Remember, the subconscious mind is the route of least resistance and will ruminate upon this command, without conscious awareness. The agent could, similarly, say, ‘This is a fantastic location. If I could live in this house now, I’d extend the kitchen, wouldn’t you?’ This is ingenious, because the client’s subconscious mind picks up, ‘I could live in this house now, I’d extend the kitchen’. The tag question, ‘wouldn’t you?’ invites agreement and the pronoun shift ‘I/you’ transfers everything said before it onto the client.

Suggestion Question
Ready to buy Before you are ready to buy now what further information can I offer you?

Analysis On face value, this apparently straightforward question appears to invite the prospect to request further information before completing the purchase. It is covertly suggesting to the potential purchaser that they are ‘ready to buy now’. Note the positioning of the word ‘now’. Is it at the end of the phrase, ‘ready to buy now’ or at the beginning of the phrase ‘now what further information’? Alternatively, the sales professional might say, ‘Before you are ready to make your decision, now what further information can I offer you?’

Suggestion Question
Buy this What difference would it make if by this time next week you have a new security system?

Analysis This simple question suggests the prospect think about the differences that having a new security system will make within a given timeframe. The linguistic (auditory) ambiguity ‘by or buy this’ is covertly suggesting that the prospect do just that. It is a powerful ‘What lead’ pre-suppositional question, as it presumes there will be some differences. Depending upon how the question is delivered, you might spot a dispersed embedded command, suggesting, ‘buy this security system’.

Suggestion Question
Want this What do you really want this car for? A people carrier for family outings with the children or a workhorse to get from A to B delivering stock to your clients?

Analysis This powerful ‘What lead’ pre-suppositional question format embeds the command ‘want this’ or ‘really want this’ while appearing to enquire about how the client sees the principle use of the vehicle. The message to ‘want this car’ slips effortlessly into the subconscious mind of the listener, reinforcing desire as they consider how to answer the surface question.

Question format

The previous questions broadly follow this format:

What do you + want/need this + (product/service) to do for you/your company/this office

You will have noticed, throughout this section, the absence of the word ‘why’. While high up on the persuasive scale for some, we would suggest minimising its use as a question opener, as it can be considered inquisitorial; it may induce a defensive response in some and, if repeated, will seem antagonistic. In most situations, a question beginning with ‘why’ can be reformed to begin with ‘what’. Questions starting with ‘How’ and ‘What’ are inherently powerful and pre-suppositional.

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Correctly constructing your questions will give tremendous influence in either opening or narrowing the options available to your customer.

  • Incorporate the vocabulary of awareness and internal representation, such as: notice, see, realise, aware, experience, discover, consider, contemplate, think about, what if, imagine, how about, if you could have. This will dramatically increase the effectiveness of your questioning technique.
  • When you wish to evoke a ‘yes’ or ‘no’ response, ask questions beginning with: do, could, would or are.
  • Formulate your questions in advance to ensure you receive the answers you want to hear.
  • Do not over-complicate your questions, as those using familiar everyday words are accepted and answered more precisely.
  • If you choose to embed commands into your questions, keep them short. The command should be a maximum of four words.

Now you are aware of how much more persuasive you will be when asking powerful questions, it is worrying to think about what will happen if you fail to do so. Isn’t it? Imagine losing more business and paving the way for the competition. You have realised that getting close to your sales target can sometimes be a struggle. Haven’t you?

Consider the reduction in your spending power if your bonus drops. What if job security became an issue? Let’s face it, holding down a sales job in an increasingly competitive market is not easy, is it?

We are pleased to say that we do not want you to be concerned about any of this happening. Because it is our mission to ensure you never experience professional failure. You see, we are going to guide you smoothly and quickly through the process of acquiring the skills to quantum leap your questioning and persuasive abilities. Now, you can get really enthused about this, can’t you?

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  • Powerful questions:
    • are thought-provoking and invite your prospect(s) to reflect on ideas and issues and provide comprehensive answers;
    • can expand your customers, options and focus and direct their attention;
    • bring underlying assumptions to light and make assumptions indirectly;
    • can contain subliminal suggestions and hidden directives;
    • can stimulate curiosity and deepen interest;
    • can lead and guide your prospect towards your goal;
    • can move your conversations forward.
    • To embed the commands ‘want this’ or ‘need this’, adapt this question structure to your business: What do you + want/need this + (product/service) to do for you/your company/this office?
    • To direct your prospect to reaffirm what they have already stated and build the habit of saying ‘yes’, follow open questions with closed questions.
    • Kipling questions are open questions and begin with the words: Why, What, Who, Where and When. To these we add: Which, What if and How.
    • Closed questions are desirable when a yes/no answer is required and start with the words: Do, Could, Would, Is, and Are.
    • Should your prospect answer ‘yes/no because’ in response to a closed question, observe their vocabulary following the word ‘because’, as it will reveal their motivational direction. You will be able to deepen rapport and lower resistance by continuing the conversation, reflecting their preferred vocabulary.
    • Questions beginning with ‘Where’, ‘How’, ‘What’ and ‘What if’ are thought more compelling than questions beginning with ‘Which’, ‘Who’ and ‘When’.

It is very likely you already use all of these questioning formats in your daily life, at work and home. Now, by consciously applying the appropriate kind of questioning, you can plant suggestions gain the information, response or outcome you seek even more efficiently.

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